8. The Moon

The Moon is one of the "Big Three"... 


The Big Three are the Sun, the Moon and the Rising Sign. 
If our personality was a kingdom, the big three would be the three most important people. the Sun would be the King, the Moon the Queen and the Rising Sign would be the Knight- who-interacts-with-the-outside-world-on-their-behalf. 

 Have you heard of the concept of "sub personalities"? Usually, we think of ourselves as one person, which we call "me" ... but what if we were actually more like several people sharing one body?

Have you already had the experience of having a friend who you usually meet for certain activities, and one day, they invite you to their home; there, your friend looks like they have become another person! You are finding out another "facet" of their personality...     
 The energies represented by the planets don't blend seamlessly; we can consider them as sub personalities in their own right. 


  The Sun is the King. It's a male energy; the Moon is the Queen it's a female energy; let's drop immediately our feminist views, or rather let's keep them for the world of people, but not for the world of symbols. 


 The Sun and the Moon are present in everyone's chart, so whatever our gender, we all have our fair share of masculine and feminine energies. Say Yang and Yin if you prefer.

Masculine  or Yang energies are expressed from inside out, they are creative, active, dynamic, self centered. Feminine energies are receptive, reactive or passive, attractive, relationship centered. 


 When we read a chart, we should always start with looking for whether Yang or Yin is dominant. Traditional gender roles have been confusing energies and people. Men used to believe they could express only the Sun and Mars, women were supposed to express only the Moon and Venus, as if all these energies weren't present in everyone's make up... 

 The Moon is our Yin side. Our inside. The Moon is us when we are receptive, when we submit or surrender, when we let go, when we relax, when we relate to others and the environment. (To relate we need to shut up and open to whoever or whatever is not us. That's Yin) 


 The Moon is how we are when we are at home, when we find ourselves in a safe environment, in private, able to express our emotions and be receptive to other people's emotions.

 The Sun by contrast, is how we are when we leave home and shine our own light in the world. The Moon is our most intimate personality, the vulnerable part of us. The Sun is not vulnerable. How could it be? It's all from inside out. No arrow can hit the Sun's heart! 


 The Moon in a birth chart also tells about our own childhood, how we were as a child, how was our mother, or more specifically how was our relationship with our mother when it came to caring and nurturing us. 

  I don't believe that planets represent people. You will often read that the Moon is the mother. To me, the Moon is the function of nurturing. When our mother was forcing us to do things, when she was forbidding or punishing, she was Saturn. When she was the great love of our life, she was Venus; When she was a role model, she was the Sun, when she taught us things she was Jupiter and she she was a rival for our father's attention, she was Mars! ...and When our father was preparing food or telling a story before we slept, he was the Moon. 

  Now that we have grown up (if we have) the Moon represents our "inner child" that is the most vulnerable and sensitive part of us. The Moon in our chart shows how we need to be cared for in what we need to feel safe. 

 The Sun also represents our "inner child" but it's the creative and playful inner child which is symbolized by the Sun, not the emotional one. 

 

 The Moon in a few key verbs:

 If you remember only four, remember: 
 I belong I feel I need I nurture

If you can remember more:

I dream I imagine I remember I am fecund I am pregnant I give birth

I change I go round in cycles

I care I long I howl I attract I react

I feed I eat I share I intuit I absorb... 

I mother I cuddle I smother I embrace... 

 

I like to repeat that everything in life is the expression of the fundamental energies of the zodiac. A great way to learn is to look around and put "energy tags" on things and people... Let's go for a walk in the street. What are we going to label "Moon"? 

 If you feel like being serious about learning, don't read the following straight away. Go for an imaginary walk in a street and search for buildings, things and people to tag "Moon" .... 

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 OK!  here are my answers: 

 First of all, all the private houses get the "Moon" label. That's where families live! 

The grocery shop, the supermarket... where the food is, Moon goes.  (A restaurant would rather have the Venus tag, because we don't need to eat there, it's rather a pleasure, even a luxury. However, it's food, so a little Moon can still be tagged there anyway...) 
The shop called "Everything for the home"... Moon tag! 
The nursery, the playground, where the children are cared for get the Moon label indeed! 

A wedding shop! The Moon wants to belong, the Moon wants to get married. Big Moon tag for the wedding shop! ... along with a Venus tag, as hopefully wedding is a story of love and partnership between two people (Venus) and not just a story of having children for your parents to become grandparents whilst you are dealing with your in laws! 
  
A Honeymoon gets a Venus tag. 

 In the hospital, the nurses get the Moon label. Their job is to care... The hospital itself is tagged Neptune. The doctors get Jupiter and Mercury. (Mercury is the specialist in health. Jupiter is the expert and the VIP) 

 I told you Mercury was associated with the age of 10 or 12, before puberty. Actually Mercury times start as soon as we learn to coordinate our movements, learn to walk and talk etc..  The Moon is associated with our early childhood, when we were just born and lived our most intimate and vulnerable moments. At that time we were mostly soaking in impressions... Our personal unconscious is made of the events and emotional memories we get from these times. 

Me and my Maman!

 The lunar temperament is sensitive, imaginative and impressionable. 
 People with strong Moon energy can even be psychic. 
 
At school, a child with a lot of lunar energy will be easily distracted and even disturbed if the atmosphere is not peaceful enough. They may well be a cry-baby. They will have a lot of imagination and enjoy stories. His or her favorite subject will be history. 

  They will hear "You are too sensitive!" a lot during their lives, unless human beings eventually learn to respect sensitivity.

 When not overwhelmed by family duties, a Moon person will enjoy staying home, cooking and eating good meals, not doing much sitting on the sofa, striking the cat, listening to music, reading or watching TV... 

 If the Moon was an animal... It could be a she wolf, howling at the Moon. The Moon can be wild you know! We may find it hard to believe when contemplating a amorphous being sprawled on the sofa eating tons of chips, but yes there is an deep instinctive wild beast hiding in there... 
 The Moon could be represented by a hen as well. One day I saw a hen followed by ten little chicken, on a farm. A young dog approached. The hen charged the dog and chased it away. I was really impressed by the courage of the hen. 

 Other than that, if the Moon was an animal, it would be a unicorn, a winged horse, a feathered dragon, a kind crocodile in need of affection, a teddy bear, or something like that... a fantasy. A chimera...

 The element associated with the Moon, and with Cancer, the sign it rules, is water. It's all emotions and feelings. Don't try to convince them with logic, kindness works better.  


 Do you get the spirit of the energy? 
 If you remember only a few things... remember: 

Feeling - Mother - Child - Family - Belonging - Imagination - Memory - Emotions - Home - Instinct - Unconscious - Emotional and physical needs - Intimacy - Sensitivity - 
 
More later. Take care! 

 

 Jean-Marc Pierson Astrologer
 
 
 
 

4. Understanding Venus

To start understanding the planet-energy Venus, we need words, and more specifically verbs. 

Venus attracts, charms, values, glues, enjoys, seduces, loves, likes, feels, relates, sings, paints, touches, tastes, decorates, dresses up, is beautiful (and knows it), has fun, chats, socializes, lazes around, eats... and owns.

 

Venus, like Mars, desires, wants, makes love and competes (in a feminine way, as you understand). Mars wants to conquer, Venus wants to have. Venus wants to bind, to attach, to keep...

 

Do you get the spirit of Venus? I suggest you let your mind wander into daydreams now. Follow the threads.... all the knowledge is available now!

How would a Venusian child behave at school? Would he or she be focused and thorough or easily bored and reluctant to put much effort into their work? How would her clothes look like? How about his/her hair?

 

How would a Venusian girl let a boy know she finds him attractive? Would she be straightforward or play at "catch me if you can"?

What if it's the boy who has a lot of Venus energy, how will he be?

He would probably be a beautiful and attractive guy, however, he might refrain from expressing this girly energy too much. In this case, he will love very Venusian girls. When we don't incarnate our own energies, we chose partners and friends who express them for us...

Venus in the chart of a man is likely to express his tastes in matter of love.

What kind of jobs, what kind of hobbies would a Venus person more enjoy? Boxing or dancing? Climbing a mountain or going to the movies? Going to a silent spiritual retreat or gossiping on the phone? ....

If Venus was an animal, which would it be? Maybe a doe..or a black panther according to the mood! 

You can ask yourselves all kinds of questions.. and if you've got the spirit of this energy, you know the answers.

Do you know Venus' favorite song?

 

"I want to be loved by you,

Just you and nobody else but you

I want to be loved by you

Alone.... poo poo pi doo!

I want to be kissed by you

Just you, nobody else but you

I want to be loved by you

Alone...

I couldn't aspire

To anything higher

Than to fill a desire to

Make you my own

I want to be loved by you,

Just you and nobody else but you

I want to be loved by you

Alone..." .

 

Have you noticed the words "Make you my own"? Venus, and especially Venus-Taurus, wants to own. Venus is possessive. She wants to have. She loves to conquer, however she wants to keep her conquest...forever! She would eat you...

 

Now, as an energy, Venus is about more than just romantic songs and stories. Venus is the law of attraction in our birth chart. Marilyn Monroe was said to be flirting with everything. Venus is the energy of how we flirt with life.

Venus in our chart tells how we manage to get what we want delivered by others, or by the universe itself!

Venus shows what we value. In some way, when we fall in love, that's because we see qualities we value in a person, or in whatever we fall for, house, scenery, music, movie....

 Venus is like a beautiful girl who loves, let's say, chocolate. She has absolutely no inner conflict about it. She loves chocolate, and chocolate happens.. Now, instead of chocolate, it can be money, good jobs, friends, opportunities to visit far away countries, opportunities to get laid, books, information, ideas, antics, whatever we love we value and attract by the magic of Venus.

The only reason we don't get what we want when we don't is that we are conflicted inside. For a start, we don't love ourselves enough. We don't value ourselves enough. If Venus in our natal chart is in a difficult position, we will struggle with self esteem issues. We may feel fears as fear, when you think of it is nothing but a negative desire. 

Venus is not the only energy. There are other planets with possibly conflicting agendas... However, if was possible to let Venus govern alone, by the power of the law of attraction, we would see all our desires come true effortlessly. Then we would become fat, decadent and extremely bored! 

 

If there is only one key word to remember about Venus, it is "Value". We don't value things, ourselves and other people intellectually. We like, or love. Valuing is a feeling. 

Venus is a relationship expert. If you remember only two key words for Venus, let them be "Value" and "Relationship". Venus wants to "Get in touch".

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If you can remember three words, remember "Glue" as well. Venus is this energy that glue things and people together, using the magic of feelings.

 

Ah yes, please, remember also "Harmony". That's all what Venus wishes for, in love, in bed and in art galleries. Harmony. In music as well indeed... Because Venus wants to enjoy. 

 

Remember Enjoy!

 

 As I said, when Venus plays out, everything becomes as easy as being beautiful and passing the exam without saying much about the topic. All jokes about blondes follow Venus in her wake. Venus makes jealous.

 

By the way, Marilyn Monroe has not that much Venus energy in her own chart. The real Marilyn was not the character she made the world believe in...  

 

Let's carry on with observing life and putting mental tags wherever it may be relevant.

 

Let's go for a walk in the street and look at the buildings. Which ones would we tag "Venus"? Probably not the homeless shelter (which would rather be tagged Neptune, Moon and Pluto). The vintage shop, the fashion academy, the restaurants, the beauty centre, the hair dresser get a "Venus tag".

Venus is good for sales. In my favorite coffee shop, there are only young and pretty women behind the counter. It's all about attracting the customer...

The computer shop would not be tagged Venus but Uranus. Now, imagine adding a bit of Venus energy to a computer... what do you get? ...A computer with a great design, and something like a half bitten forbidden fruit as a logo.

Astrology is a mental yoga. It consists of understanding energies enough to guess what happens when you mix them.

The bank as well will get a Venus tag, as Venus, especially the Taurus side of this energy, loves a well supplied account as much as she loves shopping. Venus in the natal chart tells something about our money.  

On the internet... forget about the porn, that low energy Venus. Staying decent, all the dating sites are tagged Venus.

Look at a body. What parts would you tag Venus? Sensual lips, sensual hips... Any erogenous zone gets the Venus tag. You get the picture in your mind, I won't post any here.

What social institution would be tagged "Venus"? Marriage, and more specifically the honeymoon. After the honeymoon, let's wish Venus will keep sticking around. She doesn't always do.

What emotions and feelings would you give a "Venus" tag"?

What symbols would you associate with Venus? In particular, what element among the four: Fire, Earth, Air and Water? This is a difficult one. Venus is Earth when it rules Taurus, as Earth connects with the physical body and its sensations. Venus is Air when it rules Libra, as relationships happen in the space between people...

 

Before I leave you for today, I would like to insist: you already know everything there is to know about Venus. This energy, like all energies, has been part of our life since we were born. So let's observe and daydream and all the knowledge will follow..

....and now let me just suggest a little visit to the Astro Story page on this website...